My first date, with her and in my life |
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 Nov 10 2006, 06:53 PM
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Well guys today i went on a date with a girl i have been liking since school started, or last year. (its cause i thought she was cute but i knew i had no chance) it was a triple date. me my friend nick and this dude named kevin and our dates dalena, tara and shawna.
we watched stranger then fiction(which was a pretty good movie,but better if i got to hold her hand) Shawna and kevin left after that We went shopping and barley talked Tara and Nick hit it off pretty good Me and Dalena.....  although dalena knows i have liked her for a long period of time, i felt as though it was a pity date. cuhs really i think we only went for tara and nick cuhs we both knew they liked each other, and we both knew nick wouldnt go if i didnt cuhs we're best friends and so are dalena and nick i thought that it was clear that i wanted this to be a date, cuhs i had told her when i asked her but in the end she gave me 3 hugs 1 kiss on the cheek and a "thanks for the frate (friend date) i want it to be so much more then friends, cuhs i like her so much. so much that i could say i LOVE her and that if i was in heaven and she was in hell, id trade places with her what to do now guys what to do....ive been waiting for so long.. EXTRA when i told her i liked her she told me she finds me attractive but she dosent really like like anybody. i also hear her say all the time i want a boyfriend and its true shes not being sarcastic, her best friends tell me these things but her best friends also tell me shes had a bad first relationship and i know the guy, and im positive it was a bad one im tired of waiting sorry the story is so messy, im not thinking straight. i just got home from the date |
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Nov 10 2006, 07:19 PM
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i think you and her should go on more "frates"
and it will give you the oppertunity to show her that you really do like her,. |
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Nov 10 2006, 09:08 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,087 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
maybe it was because you were in such a big group, that it might have just seemed like a hanging out sort of thing, not a date. if she's comfortable with it, try going on a double date, then a single date.
however, if a girl honestly thinks you have no chance, it's kind of hard to change her mind 
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Nov 10 2006, 09:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Validating Posts: 34 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 133,640 |
Yeah, go on more frates. Or, if that's too awkward, just be there. Since your friends like eachother you'll probably be near her more. Just smile at her and be polite. If you show her how cool you can be as an actual friend, she may want more.
It's korny, but just smiling at her everyday will probably make her feel a little bit happier. |
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Nov 10 2006, 11:19 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,345 |
Grow some f**king balls! What the f**k is wrong with you? I'm surprised she didn't slap the living shit out of you.
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Nov 11 2006, 06:34 PM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 939 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
QUOTE(I Love Poo Poo @ Nov 10 2006, 11:19 PM)  Grow some f**king balls! What the f**k is wrong with you? I'm surprised she didn't slap the living shit out of you. you are my good friend yes? |
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Nov 11 2006, 06:57 PM
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You have to show her first that she can trust you with anything.
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Nov 12 2006, 12:20 AM
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 Nikkie Group: Member Posts: 2,384 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,991 |
^i agree, let her get to know you better. just hang out with her even with a few friends and maybe she'll come around.
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Nov 12 2006, 05:20 AM
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GH0STIN` lost my mind Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 469,983 |
no chanc, in africa we have say ' she have badly aids '
go fidn a very cleanly girl |
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Nov 12 2006, 05:23 AM
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^^what the f**k are you mambling about.?
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Nov 12 2006, 06:53 AM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,458 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Just keep dating....
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Nov 12 2006, 11:17 AM
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 Watch This Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,408 |
Dude, what I'd do is hmm loosen up alittle. Like eddie said, keep dating and eventually you will find somone. Hopefully her :)
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Nov 12 2006, 11:41 AM
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GH0STIN` lost my mind Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 469,983 |
QUOTE(a painefull euphoria @ Nov 12 2006, 5:23 AM) ^^what the f**k are you mambling about.? watdup cuhz? i just say for him to find a new girl if she have badly aid then she no cure and die. if he want to die too, he follow her. |
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Nov 12 2006, 12:21 PM
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^but i dont think she has aid.lmao
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Nov 12 2006, 05:56 PM
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CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 939 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
QUOTE(Usuckmydick2 @ Nov 12 2006, 11:41 AM) watdup cuhz? i just say for him to find a new girl if she have badly aid then she no cure and die. if he want to die too, he follow her. you have the right idea |
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Nov 12 2006, 08:02 PM
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if you keep acting like that then you might as well say goodbye to whatever chance you may have.
you gotta relax and losen up. remember you are not the only one who is nervous on the date, I bet she is to. |
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Nov 12 2006, 08:04 PM
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hahah. pity date.
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Nov 12 2006, 08:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 7,790 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
What's wrong with you !
Get to know her first before a date. Right now, take your time to know her and have some fun. Then, have an actual date. |
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