how to reject expensive gifts |
how to reject expensive gifts |
Feb 1 2011, 10:06 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,454 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 696,018 |
I'm so bad at this, especially when it comes to my mom because I don't have the heart to tell her that I don't like something when she clearly spent a lot of time picking it out.
She came home with these $500 bags for my sister and I. Super trendy and shiny looking, but really not my style. I mean, my sister immediately was like "no, I don't like it" and took the purse she bought for my grandmother (which was nicer and leather and not so shiny). I tried "Oh, it's way too expensive" and "I have so many bags, I don't need another one," but she was like "Don't worry, it's a gift! Wear it on special occasions!" I didn't want to say I didn't like it, so I pretended to love it and told her that I'd prefer a watch because my watch is getting sort of scratchy and she got all excited, returned it, and now I'm going to Movado to pick something out. Lucky break, I guess. I'd prefer for her to save the money, but when she has her mind set on gift-buying it sort of can't be sidetracked. How do you reject spontaneous stupidly expensive gifts from people? Maybe you just tell them you think it's butt ugly, but I don't like being rude :( |
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Feb 1 2011, 10:16 AM
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◕ ◡ ◕ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,779 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 416,697 |
this is why i hate surprises. people usually end up gifting me things i don't like, assuming i will like it and i'm supposed to sit there with a smile and be grateful i got anything at all. you did the right thing, the nicest way to reject someones gift is smile and say you really don't need it but thank you, etc.
you can never lose with gift cards, i don't care how impersonal they are. |
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Feb 1 2011, 02:01 PM
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Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,154 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,404 |
you can never lose with gift cards, i don't care how impersonal they are. This. I don't really have anything to say about receiving expensive gifts I don't like, but I have something else that annoys me. And maybe it's a silly complaint... I don't like it when people I'm not really close with get me really awesome birthday presents. I invite them to my birthday celebration because they're fun to hang with but don't expect a gift from, and they show up with tickets to a Broadway show or a concert. The first thought that comes to mind when that happens is "HOLY SHIT, I LOVE THIS PERSON!!" but then it quickly turns to "oh f*ck, now I have to get them an awesome gift in return when I was just hoping to buy them a shot for their birthday." Yeah, I got a little sidetracked there. |
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Feb 1 2011, 02:05 PM
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◕ ◡ ◕ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,779 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 416,697 |
LOL i would get you a pet whale for sure
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Feb 1 2011, 02:10 PM
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Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,019 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 |
I would get Sandy slimfast or if I felt cheap just get her a coupon for it
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Feb 1 2011, 02:29 PM
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◕ ◡ ◕ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,779 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 416,697 |
i hate chocolate milk. buy me coffee instead
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Feb 1 2011, 02:49 PM
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Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,019 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 |
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Feb 1 2011, 09:42 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
i don't think there is any way to reject gifts. only way is to put up an act.
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Feb 1 2011, 10:17 PM
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monster hunter Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,203 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,188 |
i won't ever reject a gift that's given to me.
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*futura* |
Feb 2 2011, 02:30 AM
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lol I never get any expensive gifts so I can't say I know how to reject one
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Feb 2 2011, 10:36 PM
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monster hunter Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,203 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,188 |
even if you already have something that's being gifted to you...that's what a closet is for
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Feb 6 2011, 11:50 AM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
so mel, what is your opinion on the new trenta? i have seen a lot of criticism on tumblr lately. i know you are the highest authority on starbucks.
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Feb 7 2011, 08:34 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,454 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 696,018 |
the trenta is stupid. the lid is stupid and big and we don't have anywhere to put them and we don't have bigger shakers or ice scoops and why the hell does anybody need so much tea or coffee anyways? we don't have that many people ordering it here but if they do, it's venti + extra ice.
-_- and pshhhh. starbucks isn't new and interesting to me anymore. i don't even care enough to complain about work everyday :( I AM HOWEVER SLOWLY AND SURELY TAKING OVER THE BUFFYVERSE TUMBLR COMMUNITY. The whedon fandom doesn't have enough people who can make a quality gif. |
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Feb 7 2011, 11:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,454 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 696,018 |
Doesn't work. I usually get expensive gifts from people who live with me or see me on a regular basis.
That's why keeping it in the closet sucks because eventually they'll ask why you never wear/carry/bring out their gift. I'd just rather them not spend the money. |
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Feb 7 2011, 11:45 PM
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Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,154 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,404 |
Hmm, if it's my mom, dad, or sister, I would tell them straight up that I'm super grateful for the gift but it's really something I would not use. I would feel bad for a little bit, but they would understand.
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Feb 8 2011, 08:37 AM
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◕ ◡ ◕ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,779 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 416,697 |
my mom never liked anything i ever bought her including flowers so i think i can do the same
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Feb 8 2011, 04:03 PM
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monster hunter Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,203 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,188 |
ya'll niggas are gay and don't appreciate the value in someone giving you a gift
always accept, always grateful |
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Feb 28 2011, 01:56 PM
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This bag is not a toy. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,090 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 583,108 |
This kind of reminds me of the "how do you tell him you hate the ring" question..
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Feb 28 2011, 03:25 PM
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◕ ◡ ◕ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,779 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 416,697 |
youre in engaged what
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Mar 2 2011, 12:29 PM
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<:3 )~~~ Group: Human Posts: 41 Joined: Jun 2010 Member No: 757,639 |
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Mar 2 2011, 11:49 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Everyone that knows me, knows to just give me cash. I am too picky to be messed around with.
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