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 Dec 5 2007, 12:37 PM
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 shboom =]  Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693  |
ok so me and this guy josh have been friends for a while.. and we were headed back form a wrestling match a few wks ago and we ended up holding hands and stuff like that and he told me that he wanted to date me just not right now and im fine with that. i was willing to wait.
well then his ex who is my friend she doesn't care if we date. emails me and tell me that josh said i asked him out and she acted all mad about it. and i told her that neither one of us had asked anybody out we were just talking about it. so end of story there. then just last week me and josh were talking in the hallway between classes and as soon as he saw his ex he pushed me aside and went to talk to her. and yea i got mad. and i think i had a right to be mad. you don't just all the sudden push the girl ur talking to away so u can talk to ur ex. and i asked him about him and he got all pissed off. and we didn't talk for a few days. saturday there was a wrestling tournament we went to and we had been talking some and so i didn't think he was mad at me anymore. and on the way home we were talking and he was like i just don't want a gf right now and i was like thats fine i can wait and he was like well don't bother me anymore and so i took that as he didn't want to talk to me anymore bc i hadn't done anything to him that should have bothered him anymore ya know? and so i just told him to act like we weren't even friends. but i thought about what i had said to him and on monday i tried to apologize to him and he just pushed me out of the way and kept walking. and so i don't know what i can do to fix this. bc i rly do like him and i would like to still have a chance to date him. what should or can i do? |
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Dec 5 2007, 02:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,574 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 555,438 |
I did it because... because... *cry*
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Dec 5 2007, 02:44 PM
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 So um yeah Group: Official Designer Posts: 745 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 459,873 |
To be honest, have more respect for yourself than to like or even attempt to date a guy who is ashamed to be seen talking to/walking with you.
I know this how it goes in high school, but trust me, you do not have to put up with immature boys. And trust me, you'll forget all about him in about 2 years. |
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Dec 5 2007, 04:49 PM
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 that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
he isn't worth your time. move on & find someone better.
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Dec 5 2007, 05:14 PM
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He's treated you inconsidorately. He's not worth your time.
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Dec 5 2007, 05:38 PM
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 RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
I agree with everyone else, he still has things to work out with his ex obviously, he's not over her. And if he is and he just treats you like that because that's how he is, than that's just a sure fire sign of worse things to come.
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Dec 5 2007, 05:47 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Dec 5 2007, 05:38 PM)  I agree with everyone else, he still has things to work out with his ex obviously, he's not over her. And if he is and he just treats you like that because that's how he is, than that's just a sure fire sign of worse things to come. Ryan is the man. |
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Dec 5 2007, 08:09 PM
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 ‹(. .)› Group: Official Member Posts: 2,367 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,089 |
QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Dec 5 2007, 02:38 PM) I agree with everyone else, he still has things to work out with his ex obviously, he's not over her. And if he is and he just treats you like that because that's how he is, than that's just a sure fire sign of worse things to come. yah, i think the main problem is, although they are broken up and they claim they don't, they still have feelings for each other. he "doesn't want a gf" right now 'cause he probably thinks he'll get back together with his ex. and of course his ex would say she's okay with you two dating, otherwise she'll come off as a bitch. obviously the truth is she doesn't want you two together. there are just too many complications in trying to start a relationship with this guy. you should move on ;o |
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Dec 6 2007, 01:30 AM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Dec 5 2007, 11:38 AM) I did it because... because... *cry*  But overall I agree with what everyone else said. He treated you like crap first. I mean seriously you don't have to run up and apologize to him. Like its been said already don't waist your time. Just move on. |
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Dec 6 2007, 01:30 AM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
QUOTE(freeflow @ Dec 5 2007, 10:30 PM) But overall I agree with what everyone else said. He treated you like crap first. I mean seriously you don't have to run up and apologize to him. Like its been said already don't waist your time. Just move on. Toya is my hero. 
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