i'm not sure if i should break up with him, i need advice |
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 Aug 31 2004, 05:06 PM
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 ...jUs CaLL mE tEe...  Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,234  |
ok well....me and my ex boyfren jus started going back out agen after lyk a year. we've only been going out for lyk 4 dayz, and i've encountered a problem. see my boyfren has a bif problem with this other guy at sku....and really wants 2 beat him up. This other guy is super scared and he told his mom. His mom came to my sku and talked to my dad (the Dean of Students). My name ended up in the conversation becuz i went up 2 him the other day to say "hi". Now my dad is blaming me for this whole threatning thing, wen i didn't do anything. He told me if my boyfren getz in trouble....since i'm "associated" with him, i'll get in trouble to. i don't want to get blamed for things jus becuz i'm going out with him! so i'm thinking about breaking up with him so i don't have to deal with his crap! can sumone please give me sum advice!!
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Aug 31 2004, 05:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,022 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
well if you still really like him..I suggest you dont break up with him. Just talk to himabout how you feel & it wouldnt hurt to talk to your dad as well
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Aug 31 2004, 05:56 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,442 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
ew please don't type like that. it gives me a headache and it makes you look uneducated.
 anyhooo... just tell your boyfriend AND dad how you feel. //edit// 100th post baby!!!!!!!! 
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Aug 31 2004, 05:57 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,768 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
well, if you reallylike your bf, you should talk to him, and talk to your father, explaining what you really did.
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Aug 31 2004, 05:59 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,888 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Talk to your boyfriend and your dad.
Yeah, please don tyype lyk dis. 
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Aug 31 2004, 06:00 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,611 |
well, why does your bf want to beat up this guy? talk to him about it. if he really love you then he would stop this whole thing. if he STILL doesn't listen to you.. it doesn't show much of a good bf. so just break it off. because he should not want you to get in trouble with your dad, just because of HIS problem. do i make any sense?
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Aug 31 2004, 08:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Yeaps, if he really likes you or loves you, he would listen to you. And even if he doesn't, well you know he doesn't like you enough.
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Sep 26 2004, 09:57 PM
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 Dark Saga Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,315 |
QUOTE ew please don't type like that. it gives me a headache and it makes you look uneducated. Yea, I hate when people type like they are stupid. If you like him, don't break up with him just because you might get in trouble. |
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Sep 26 2004, 11:15 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 3,266 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
hey if you like him that much, you wouldn't mind getting balme with him and getting punished or whatever together iwth him... share the pain... if not break up then go back with him whenever thing is over :P and why fight? fighting is stupid and for ppl taht have no brains and results with fighting... ppl that go far in life in the future do not fight...
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Sep 26 2004, 11:26 PM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 1,064 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
...shouldn't you stick by your boyfriend? Don't you feel anything for him? If you're scared to get in trouble...so you dump your boyfriend...you don't seem very loyal. I know it'd suck BIG TIME if you guys got in trouble...tell your boyfriend to stop threatening the other dude. I mean, can't we all get along?
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Sep 27 2004, 03:56 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 2,156 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
if he really likes you too then he'll listen to you if you tell him not to fight him
  Steph
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Sep 27 2004, 04:04 PM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 454 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
ur dad is right... break up with him... he is ruining ur lyf too
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Sep 28 2004, 05:39 PM
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 Kids.Have.All.The.Fun Group: Member Posts: 280 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,943 |
well if ur boyfriend likes u u should be able to tell him that either he needs to stop being a dumb ass or else ur gonna break up with him cause u don't need to deal with his sh*t. and if he really cares about u he would stop threatening people so that niether of u get in trouble
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Sep 28 2004, 05:51 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
"sku"... are we really getting that lazy? i thought it was "skool"
You could get dragged into the problem, so yea. |
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Sep 28 2004, 10:52 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,519 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
honestly i doubt u would get in trouble for someone elses action, clearly when u didnt do it, and i think ur dad is just using that excuse so u dont date this "bad boy" haha, ask him... to try to let go of what ever grudge he has against this guy, being scared is bad enough, he doesnt have to beat him to a bloody pulp just to be a jerk ya know.... iono haha,
i think u should tell him to lay off or u 2 are done... but i doubt u would get in trouble |
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Sep 28 2004, 10:53 PM
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Bah. You're being selfish, but it's okay. How old are you?
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Sep 28 2004, 10:54 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,607 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
^ dreamguy just told you everything i think about
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Sep 29 2004, 12:43 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,549 |
well it'd be pretty dickhead to just ditch him like that because of an accident. he didn't purposely do it to hurt you. stick with him through hard times. or if you want, you can leave him, causing him to really be sad or mad. up to you.
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Sep 29 2004, 12:48 AM
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 that`s hot ;) Group: Member Posts: 321 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,906 |
well..he IS your boyfriend, and to just break up with him over some misunderstanding sounds pretty messed up. let your dad think what he wants to think, if you know you ddnt do sh*t you shouldnt be so bothered by it, let alone break up with your bf. and if you were thinking of getting back with him after this issue went away...i personally think that you would not have a chance with him coz a good gf wouldnt just ditch their bf in a situation like that.
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